Therapy for Procrastination in NYC
Therapy for procrastination with Dr. Rose Miller, PhD, in person in NYC or virtually across New York State.
What procrastination looks like
You know exactly what you need to do, and you still end up scrolling, cleaning, or doing everything except that one thing. Deadlines become the only way anything gets done. You work in last-minute bursts, feel the shame afterward, and promise yourself next time will be different.
What’s underneath
Procrastination usually isn’t a time-management problem. It’s a way of avoiding uncomfortable feelings, like fear of failing, fear of being judged, or fear that the task will prove you’re “not good enough.”
How I work with procrastination
We use CBT to catch the thoughts that keep you stuck (“I’ll do it when I feel ready”), plus self-compassion, because shame is one of the biggest drivers of putting things off.
What changes
You start things sooner, finish more of what matters, and stop losing nights to guilt. You trust yourself to follow through, and tasks stop feeling like tests of your worth.
Is procrastination just laziness, or could it be ADHD?
Laziness implies you don’t care. Most procrastinators care a lot, which is exactly why the task feels so heavy. Importantly, ADHD can look similar. If attention problems show up across your whole life, we can talk about whether an evaluation makes sense. For many people, though, procrastination is about emotion, not attention.